Unbothered. Mostly.
You might be wondering—why is a 20-year-old girl starting a blog in 2025? No one reads these anymore, right? Honestly, I personally think blogging is making a comeback. Even if it’s not, I’m just here, brain-dumping my unfiltered thoughts and using this space to lay out the lessons I’ve learned and the questionable decisions I make along the way.
This blog isn’t about having it all together—it’s about learning how to navigate through the chaos, the overthinking, and the happy moments that make life interesting. I have anxiety, I am a crazy overthinker about everything, and I know what it’s like to feel like you’re the only one that is overthinking things that probably don’t even matter at the end of the day. I personally believe no one has any clue what they are doing, and everyone is just pretending.
So, if you’ve ever felt yourself feeling a bit overwhelmed googling at 2AM “how to glow up in a day,” or if you could not fall asleep over a text that someone sent or even that they did not send, wondering if you’re doing enough, welcome! This is a safe space for all of us to overthink, laugh at the chaos of it all, and figure it out together (or pretend we are).
Let’s get into it.